So it turns out…i’m not perfect lol
I have to take responsibility for my part in the failure of my previous relationships
and more importantly…the part I played in my heart being broken.
So I took a hard look at myself and my actions, plus took into consideration complaints I have heard from previous partners and I compiled a list of my relationship flaws.
- I’m not vulnerable
- I’m over analytical
- I tend to allow things to play themselves out
- I’m always fighting to be ‘top dog’ in the relationship
- I’m always having the new dude pay for what the old dude did!
- I’m stubborn
- I let my insecurities get the better of me and affect my relationships
Admittance is the first step to recovery!
I would encourage everyone to take some time and come up with their own list.